Our Role

The title sound real serious right??Nah..this just some stuff bout love-love thingy.Anyway,let me start off by telling u guys 2 stories first.

Story number 1
I was 14,and I was at the library surfing the net.Then I add a girl,that time I'm not using Ringo,some sort of social networking.Then we start replying message and all,then start chatting on yahoo messenger.

We were not really close as I'm not really good in socialising,kinda my weakness and all,up till now,still got problem in making friends,but I do get better :P .OK.Then,one of my friend want her id,saying that he interested in making friends with her.I was like,owh,ok.here you are.

After several month,they got so close until the girl called him every night.If wanna compare to me,he was on another level with her.I don't know if the were in love or what,but in a month, he did something that i cant even do even if i were given one year time.He actually really good in this stuff.Kinda one of his speciality.

Then one of my friends ask me,"hey,are u fine with him getting along so damn close with the girl? "
My friend like trying to say that that guy "snatched" the girl from me.I told her that I have nothing to do with the girl.We barely a friend.

Story number 2
I get this from my friend's blog.Sorry ek?Just trying to give an example of incident.
It was a story about a boy,have a girlfriend.Then,his bestfriend,snatched the girlfriend and make her his own girlfriend.Then the boy wanna quit and want to be transfer to other school.


Ok.So,what I'm really trying to say here is everybody got their own role to play.Like the first story,yes,it seems like my friend snatched the girl from me,but it is my own mistake for not trying hard enough to get the girl.I don't have enough skill of effort.So,I lose the girl while my friend got her.So,everybody play their role.I play my role,as a non-effort guy,while my friend,did his role,as the one who try very hard,and skillful,so thus the girl,which do her part by choosing the one who make the most effort.right?

So,nobody to blame here.If I were to rant about my losing,it would be my fault to be blame,for not having the knowledge how to tackle a girl.Moreover,not like that girl promise me anything such as full-commitment relationship.So,everybody did their role,as how they want it.

On the story number 2,yes,maybe you think that bestfriend is an ass hole,but still,think,he only did his role,that is snatching his own bestfriend's girlfriends.Nothings wrong there,accept if we wanna consider that fucking kind of attitude.While the girlfriend herself also has her role to be played,either to be a loyal girlfriend or to be a bitch.Well,she choose to be the latter one,and the boy himself,did he do his role as a cautious boyfriend,by watching out her girlfriend,but I don't like to elaborating on this.

Because,a girl which can easily left her current boyfriend for another guy isn't worth a shit.The boy should be thankful for realising his girl was a bitch,earlier than he supposed to.Its a good thing right?Maybe the boy have to play a role as a very good guy,so that his girl will love him more,and not ditching him for some other guy.Right?maybe that boy was an ass hole.If that the case,obviously the girl would look for some other guy.

So,the point is everybody has their role to play,either as a bad guy,or a good guy.Our role will determine the end result,which lead to what kind of life we lead.So,choose a nice role.At least,not a guy who would go for the trouble of transferring to other school just because of being dumped.That's lame...